Anonymous:

Hey. I’m also in a LDR. I live in Germany, he also but we live 300km apart. We meet us every weekend. Sadly the next two weekends we can’t see us.. In 1 Month I will go 10 months to USA so we won’t see us for a long time. I’m 16 and he’s 17.He told me that he will wait for me and that 10 month will pass fastly. Everyday he tells me that he loves me a lot and he will wait for me.

I believe you will be going for school in USA. To be honest, 10 months will really go by quick. Communication is the key here, don’t go a day without communicating to each other, I know there will be days that you will be so busy that you don’t have time to talk.

The best way is set times on which when you are available so he knows when you are available, video chat each other daily.

Good luck to both of you, stay in love.

Anonymous:

I’m having some trouble with a girl i’ve been talking to over the last few months; We get along so well and are so alike! But I always get the feeling she doesn’t trust me, and see’s me being capable of some truly horrible things. I work in a pretty chaotic job and I’m doing a degree, because of it, she thinks im cheating on her whenever i can’t talk. I feel like im a criminal for having a career

It’s really hard for a girl to trust a guy, especially if they’re in a LDR. It takes time, prove your girl that you can be trusted. Be truthful to her.

Send her pictures of yourself doing some work or some picture of yourself being wacky, funny, etc. Just to prove that you’re not lying.

Give her your work/school schedule so she knows where you are from this time to that time.

Good luck to both of you and hoping that everything works out.