I’m 19 and he’s 20 and we’ve been in a relationship for almost 4 months. He lives all the way on Alabama and I’m here in Ontario. The thing is, my friend made me go on this app called tinder which is a dating thing and I thought I’d do it for fun, nothing else. So then this guy messages me who is really cute and quirky and lives in my city (I’ve not messaged him at all) and for some reason I want to talk to him but I feel like I’m cheating just by going on the app and starting to doubt. I love m

Try it, it’s not cheating until you give meaning to it. It’s not bad to make new friends, it’s bad if you do something else that you would with your LDBF.

Stay in love.


Hi I’m a boy and I’ve been inlove with this girl for about 10 months. We have been together on and off and it’s long distance. I’ve messed up quiet a lot with talking to other girls. She had enough and given up on me and her saying she don’t wanna be together anymore. I love her a lot but she keeps leading me on. Saying she wants me and then I ask her out again. She says she isn’t ready. I’m tired of waiting for her. But I don’t know what to do. Any suggesting?

Only YOU can change and you have to prove her that you did change. No more screwing around, you have to be serious.

You have to prove her that you’re not going to play around anymore.