Anonymous:

I’ve been in a LDR with my bf for 5 mths. He’s my 1st bf.. lol everything is first for me >.< and there’s something that’s been bugging me. Is it natural, or just okay to have sexual stuff I mean yeah it is but he wants me to watch him do his thing, and he wanna see me while he does(via skype) I cant do it. Its like cybersex lol, but he told me long distance, do it that way. Weird to ask I know but please help.

Cybersex is normal and only do it when you are comfortable enough to do it. Don’t do it because he wants to, do it because you want to. Don’t force yourself if you can’t do it.

Be sure that you trust him and you’re comfortable to do it. If he really loves you he can wait until you are comfortable.

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