Hi im in my first ldr relationship and its been 2 months and a week and today my girlfriend ask for a break. these last few nights she wasnt sure much because she was thinking how ldr never works for her and it sounded like she wanted to give up but i told her that im here and etc. I never had a break before so it sounds stupid to ask what happens in one. I know that I’ll need to give her space but I was wondering if I should stop sending things for our monthsary til things are cleared up or not
Its been only two months and she’s already asking for a break? Maybe, she’s not committed to the relationship. How’s your communication with each other? Just be there for her.
Before you give her something for your monthsary, check how you guys are doing. Is it going to be worth it giving her a gift? Just greet her for now and see how it goes.
Break up is never easy, losing the one you love. Dealing with it is hard, you can’t just forget everything and move on. During breakup, your SO would be a stranger once again, there’s going to be memory embedded on you.
Good luck to both of you, hoping for the best.