Hi im in my first ldr relationship and its been 2 months and a week and today my girlfriend ask for a break. these last few nights she wasnt sure much because she was thinking how ldr never works for her and it sounded like she wanted to give up but i told her that im here and etc. I never had a break before so it sounds stupid to ask what happens in one. I know that I’ll need to give her space but I was wondering if I should stop sending things for our monthsary til things are cleared up or not

Its been only two months and she’s already asking for a break? Maybe, she’s not committed to the relationship. How’s your communication with each other? Just be there for her.

Before you give her something for your monthsary, check how you guys are doing. Is it going to be worth it giving her a gift? Just greet her for now and see how it goes.

Break up is never easy, losing the one you love. ¬†Dealing with it is hard, you can’t just forget everything and move on. During breakup, your SO would be a stranger once again, there’s going to be memory embedded on you.

Good luck to both of you, hoping for the best. 


Hey. I’m also in a LDR. I live in Germany, he also but we live 300km apart. We meet us every weekend. Sadly the next two weekends we can’t see us.. In 1 Month I will go 10 months to USA so we won’t see us for a long time. I’m 16 and he’s 17.He told me that he will wait for me and that 10 month will pass fastly. Everyday he tells me that he loves me a lot and he will wait for me.

I believe you will be going for school in USA. To be honest, 10 months will really go by quick. Communication is the key here, don’t go a day without communicating to each other, I know there will be days that you will be so busy that you don’t have time to talk.

The best way is set times on which when you are available so he knows when you are available, video chat each other daily.

Good luck to both of you, stay in love.