Hiya!! I’m in LDR. He’s the sweetest guy ever and I’m hopelessly in love with him. He’s coming in May and I want to make love but I don’t know if I’m ready for that type of commitment… I want it and I think I’m ready but I’m not 100% sure… Any advice??

One question. Are you ready?

If you’re having second thoughts, that means you’re not. You want to, but you don’t. 

Think of consequences that might happen.


Hey, I’m meeting a ‘friend’ I say friend because we aren’t yet together. He lives 6hours away and he’s coming up to see me next week. He talks about wanting to kiss me etc. the thing is when we first met I lied about my age. I said I’m 2 years older than I actually am and I don’t know how to tell him. Please helps Xx

Before meeting, tell him the truth. It’s better to tell the truth than your friend finding out.


I’ve been in a LDR for nearly a year now. My advice for anyone is to remember that communication is the key, be as open and as honest as possible and encourage your partner to be the same. I know how hard it can get, hours on the phone crying together because you miss each other so much, feeling useless because you just want to be with them etc. but it’s truly amazing how it can be! Love is amazing and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Be strong fellow LDR friends I know the void never goes.

Thank you!


Any advice or encouragement for me? I’ve been in a LDR (4,000 miles away) with the most amazing boy I’ve ever met for nearly five months, now. My mother accepts it, but doesn’t quite approve, and his family is tickled. We plan on closing the distance in about three and a half years, or less. I’ve never met him in person, but I love him more than I’ve loved anyone else. Just looking for some light when I miss him so badly.

Just keep communicating with each other. Keep mentioning him to your parents and soon enough, they will approve it.

Best wishes for both. Stay in love, keep in love.


Howdy! I’m a trans (female to male) and I’m afraid of people not accepting the love me and my girl share. I am afraid that she’ll get picked on to the point of breaking up with me I’m in love with her and it’s rare for me to fall for someone ;(

Just be who you are, don’t let that change you. If your girl loves you, she will accept you for who you are.


Okay. Having a tough day): My boyfriend and I have been in our relationship for 2 years and 4 months. He joined the navy and left in August for basic training. We stayed strong together and I saw him for a day when he was done. It was amazing. And now he’s back in Illinois (I’m in CT) and is studying school for the navy and then will be stationed in CA. It’s so hard. Any advise? I have days where I flat out break down. And I have days where I am great. But I’ve never felt this sad rn. Help??

Breakdown means that you really love him, it’s okay. This is a test, it will test your faithfulness to each other. Be patient, and when time comes you will see each other again.

Keep communicating, send mails to each other. Skype maybe, if they allow it.